Dating & Relationships

‘I want to save sex for marriage,’ began the email. ‘My boyfriend is a great Christian guy in many ways, but he’s pressuring me to sleep with him, and my resolve is weakening. I’ve had non-Christian boyfriends who were very respectful of my decision to abstain. What should I do?’

In this two-part series, I offer some tips and insights for single parents who’re dating and those who may be dating a parent. Whether you have kids yourself or are considering someone who does, it’s important to be aware of how both you and they will be affected.

This question is often asked by Christians. ‘I like someone, they don’t go to church, but what’s the harm?’ In part 1 of this post, we can explore what dating a non-Christian may mean for us. In Part 2, we can explore it in a much deeper and sensitive way for people who are thinking of, or already dating, a non-Christian.

It can be confusing walking the line between admiring the way someone looks and making them feel as if they’re only valued for their physical appearance. So in this article, I answer some questions about the nature and nurture of physical attraction.

Christian festivals have always been a fantastic place to connect with other believers, get inspired and re-energise your faith. But they can also be a great place to meet new people outside of your usual networks.

I wanted to get married at 22. I ended up getting married at 32. Yes, a whole ten years after the age I thought would be ideal! So, I know what it’s like to want to be married, to see all your friends getting married, to go to social events and wonder if every guy that as much as looks your way is ‘the one’. Not to mention the pressure that comes with being the oldest girl in an African family.

Online dating is one of the most common ways that people get together now. In a world where we’re always busy, it’s the easiest way to find that special someone. It does mean, though, that you need to write your own dating profile. Here’s how to write a profile that really reflects you as a person.

I’m 32 and have never been kissed – and I have a message for all my single friends.